If your husband is cheating, there are a few ways in which he will be trying to cover his trail and keep you off the scent. If you notice any of the following, brace yourself as you may uncover the truth.

Taking out cash – If you husband is smarter than the average, he will take out cash to hide those secret dinners and flower purchases. Although this makes it hard to come to a conclusion, if you check your bank statements carefully you will be able to see when and at what time the money is being withdrawn. You can check to see if this matches up with a time your husband was away or working. You can also check the regularity of the withdrawals. Is it a one-time action or a regular thing?

Secret Credit Cards – A husband who has something to hide will probably apply for credit cards without your knowledge, check his wallet if you have the chance and see if there are any there you do not recognize. Also with the increase of prepay cards available this is also an alternative that some cheaters use to prevent detection.

Throwing Away Receipts – Although it’s a nasty job, if you suspect your partner of cheating, check the rubbish bin. Look for small crumpled up receipts. Although your partner is using cash, he will still get a receipt. This can be a good way of tracking the whereabouts of your partner. If he said he was at, and there is a receipt from somewhere else, he is obviously lying to you. It is a good idea to keep a diary so you can note down where he has said he would be, so you can check with the receipts that you have found.

New Email Accounts – Your husband may set up a new e-mail account to communicate with his new lover. Sometimes if he is forgetful he might not have remembered to clear the saved form history on the computer. This means that when you type in an e-mail address into a search bar, the computer will show you examples of e-mail addresses previously typed into the computer. If one shows up that you do not recognize this may be the new secret one!

So armed with this secret knowledge you may be able to stay one step ahead of your cheating husband and catch him.

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